I think opposites are needed, at least in this dimension, for us to grow. It's interesting to figure out how destruction leads to creation, and how out of a dark-age something new can be born.
For example, firefighters used to put out forest-fires that occur naturally, but they have stopped because the fire clears out dead stuff to make way for new plants. On face value a lot of destructive actions serve no purpose, but sometimes it is necessary to tear something down so that you can build it up.
Putting this to use, let's consider two examples of warriors:
On one hand, we have the passive, the invisible, the 'servile', the feminine. Even though on the surface it gives into the will of others, it can still manipulate others and have it's will done. It is subtle, can serve as a trickster. Rather than get into conflicts, you conserve your energy and stay under the radar.
On the other hand we have aggressive brute force, making a show of force for the world to see. This can intimidate some, but if gone to far it creates lots of unneeded conflict. This kind is much more open, and if left uncontrolled it is very easy for others to manipulate.
If your completely passive, than you wouldn't have any personal boundaries, but you would probably push into other peoples boundaries if your completely aggressive.
It's a hard balance trying to create an environment where the whole group remains respected while still promoting individuality.
The more I think about it, it seems necessary to keep a balance between the two in your life. Any thoughts on this?
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